I’m a novice meditator. For years, I dallied with meditation, starting and stopping many times, struggling to build a habit. At one point, I even tried Meditation Teacher Training to kick-start my practice. But, for a variety of reasons, that was a bust too.
Then last year, I set a goal to develop a consistent meditation practice, with more determination than before, and with a little help from a device called Muse. Muse is a brain-sensing headband, designed to provide biofeedback to the meditator about their brain activity. When the brain is calm, the meditator is rewarded with the chirp of a bird, letting the meditator know, whatever they are doing (or not doing) is working and the brain is getting calmer. When the brain is active, background sounds selected in advance get louder and louder, letting the meditator know that are headed off track. (I like the beach background and the rainforest backgrounds best).
The feedback provided by Muse made me curious about what was occurring within me during meditation and how that was affecting my brain. I started journaling after each meditative session, indulging my curiosity, hypothesizing about what aspects of my internal experience were arising to impact my brain activity. That’s when I began to discern distinct parts of me.
Over time, I noticed that five unique aspects of myself were showing up consistently on my meditation journey and they each had a different impact on my brain activity. I began to refer to them as the Five Sojourners.
A sojourner is someone who resides temporarily in one place. Which feels appropriate as one of the things I’m learning through meditation is how very temporary my experience is…and all things are.
The Five Sojourners who accompany me on my meditation journeys are:
1) The Drifter, 2) The Narrator, 3) The Doer 4) The Feeler, and 5) The Observer.
“I’m exhausted. I need to plan a vacation. But, when?”The Drifter lacks intention, aimlessly drifting between past and present, riding a wave of thoughts. He is a passenger in a driverless car.
When the Drifter shows up, the background noise grows and grows until another Sojourner shows up to calm things down. While the Drifter dominated early in my meditation experience, his dominance was soon replaced by another, more attentive and well-meaning sojourner, The Narrator.
When the Narrator comes along on my meditation journey, she is conducting a play by play of what’s going on in the moment and preparing to report out about the results. The Narrator is ….well, narrating, saying things like:
When the Narrator shows up, the Muse device detects her, turning up the volume on the background noise, providing me with evidence that my Narrator is creating noise in my brain. But, damn that Narrator!!! The Narrator is WAY more pernicious than the Drifter. My Narrator is like the wallpaper of my experience. Most of the time, I don’t even notice the Narrator because she is so ubiquitous.
The Doer wants to change things to make me more comfortable. The Doer doesn’t think, it just does. The Doer has me sit up straighter, move my feet because they hurt, roll my neck because that would be good for me. The Doer adjusts, moves, and tweaks to change my experience of the situation to be more in line with what I want it to be, think it should be or feels better to me.
Interestingly, to me at least, when the Doer shows up, my brain goes calm. If I want to attract the birds, I know all I need to do is put Doer in charge. This finding has been both surprising and unsurprising to me. I’ve done some form of work out very nearly every day for 35 years, moving my body, putting my Doer in charge, to provide me some relief from my Drifter and my Narrator. But engaging the Doer is not the purpose of meditation.
The Feeler feels what it feels. The Feeler feels tired, bored, sad, defeated, hopeful, encouraged, light, hurt, suspicious, tender, guilty, overwhelmed, engulfed, overcommitted, grateful. The Feeler sits in its feeling. The Feeler is enmeshed with its feeling, without separation or boundary.
The Feeler shows up very, very rarely. Really only making an appearance when all of the other Sojourners are asleep or have passed out. (This realization has made me aware of just how little attention I pay and space I give to my feelings.) My brain is calm to neutral when the Feeler is in charge.
The Observer witnesses it all. The Observer witnesses the Drifter drifting, the Narrator narrating, the Doer doing and the Feeler feeling. The Observer doesn’t try to change things. The Observer accepts all as it is. The Observer doesn’t think. The Observer doesn’t want. The Observer doesn’t feel. The Observer is merely present with what is. The Observer listens, looks, perceives, observes.
When the Observer arrives, the birds come. They chirp joyfully and easily. My brain is quiet, calm, still. And the Observer is the Sojourner who makes the fewest appearances, unfortunately. As I reflect upon why that is, what comes up for me is that my inattention, my efforting, my pursuit of comfort, my loss of boundary, block me from simply being…and letting the Observer emerge. And that’s my work as a meditator.
As I started to right this blog to share my meditation experience, I asked myself, “Why should anyone care? Why would a coach be interested in a dissection of my meditation journey?” Then, I realized, that the Sojourners who accompany me in my meditation journey, also accompany me in my coaching. Uh oh.
Yeah, this hit me like static electricity. The Drifter, The Narrator, The Doer, The Feeler and The Observer all show up when I coach. Dang!
It’s true. The Sojourners that accompany me on my meditator journey also accompany me as I coach.
While the Drifter doesn’t dominate my coaching and it still appears more often than I’d like. His experience is something like:
The Drifter disconnects me from my client, myself and the coaching space. The Drifter is a cheat. I allow him show up when I haven’t sufficiently prepared and created the space for coaching or haven’t tended to my self-care enough to be fully present and energetic for my client.
The Narrator is awake and active during most of my coaching sessions. (Not saying that’s good, it’s just true). The Narrator is narrating what’s going on with the client, within me, with the connection between us.
The Narrator is over-trying. The Narrator is at once both reporting and figuring. I’ve been coaching 15 years now. And the Narrator STILL doesn’t trust me, the coach and the process. Heavy sigh…
The Doer still shows up more often than I’d like during coaching. The Doer wants to DO something and wants the client to DO something because doing something makes everything better. Right? No, of course not and it can give me that illusion. My Doer can get triggered by strong feelings in my client and circumstances that seem hopeless (to my client and to me if I’ve lost my boundary).
I try to catch the Doer before they start doing. I’m successful more of the time now that I know their tendencies. And I’ve learned to keep a watchful eye out for them.
Just as in my meditation, I fear I don’t give my Feeler nearly enough space in my coaching. It’s easy for me to be empathetic with clients, except when it’s not. It’s not so easy for me to be empathetic and feel with them when they aren’t feeling either. Or when they dismiss the acknowledgement of what they might be feeling. And it can be dicey for me to be empathetic when I buy in too fully to how my client is feeling and why they are feeling that way. That’s when the Feeler is a betrayer, causing me to lose my boundary. Maybe that’s why I don’t give my Feeler more space. Definitely something I’m going to work on.
Engaging the Observer is what coaching invites us to do. Engaging my Observer requires me to trust and let go. She requires me to trust myself, my client and the process. To trust my training, my experience, my ability, my enoughness as a coach. The Observer asks a lot and nothing at all.
It has been easy for me to believe that there is one more training, one more certification, one more coach-approach that I need before I can trust. I need an MCC. I need to know the best, most powerful questions to ask. I need to be creating value for my clients in every coaching session. And it’s just not true. The vast majority of the time, what my clients can best be served by is my engaged Observer.
One of my goals in the year ahead is to trust that I can trust. And allow the Observer the space to be present in my coaching
If this blog isn’t an advertisement for meditation, I don’t know what is. We coaches have a responsibility to observe and be present with our internal experience. Because, whether we know it or not, it IS showing up in our coaching. And better we know what it is and how it shows up than not.
We have a responsibility to our clients to be aware of how our sojourners might be impacting not only our experience, but theirs. We have enormous influence over our clients, whether we want to, or feel we should. We do. If we have created the level of trust and intimacy needed to do deep work, then we have a great deal of influence over them.
It’s essential that we know what we are bringing to our work. We can learn what we bring through meditation, through assessments like the EQ Profile (which reveals your unconscious internal experience), through journaling, through self-as-coach exercises, through being coached. We coaches can really never stop observing and learning about ourselves if we are going to do our best work.
What about you? What do you do to observe yourself? What has been your most powerful learning about yourself and how has it changed your coaching? Join the conversation and let us know.
Bill showed up to our coaching session saying that he’d like to talk about a conversation he’d had with his business partner, Ted. He was uncomfortable with the implications of what Ted had said and wanted to process it with me. And it turned into a fortuitous opportunity to coach Bill on empathy.
If you recall from Part 1 of this two-part blog, Bill thought was he empathetic. He wasn’t asking for coaching on empathy, didn’t bring relationship challenges to coaching, and lack of empathy didn’t show up in his 360. However, his direct reports would describe to me conversations with Bill that demonstrated a lack of empathy. So the presenting coaching challenge for me was, “How do I coach someone to be more empathetic who isn’t asking to be more empathetic, isn’t demonstrating lack of empathy in our coaching sessions, and believes he is quite empathetic, with no evidence to the contrary?” Bill had unknowingly given me my opening.
Empathy is given a bad wrap – though maybe not like you think. In writing this blog, I performed some fairly extensive research on empathy and how to increase it. I found that, paradoxically, while numerous studies refer to how much more effective empathetic leaders are than their unempathetic counterparts, few of the practices for increasing empathy were presented in a work context, and little consideration was given to what makes being empathetic in a work environment difficult.
Most of what’s written about increasing empathy is presented in generalities and without context. As if empathy is something you use only in your free time and in your non-work relationships. Or as if you can do empathy on your own, like exercise, without involving anyone else. As if it’s a mindset that you develop without an application to people you know and work with.
Empathy is best practiced with people we know and work with. Wait, what?! Yes, I believe that it’s when we are employed in a joint activity with a common goal that we learn what it means to be empathetic and connected in relationship. Not in a romantic sense. (Why is it whenever you use the word ‘relationship,’ it’s assumed to be romantic?!) Work provides us the opportunity to learn about ourselves, connect with and grow in relationship with others. Work is an ideal space in which to practice empathy, not just when it’s easy, with our friends and family and when everything’s going great, but with our co-workers (relationships we may not have chosen) and in challenging situations.
Bill was definitely presented with a challenging situation during his conversation with Ted. Ted had told Bill that he was uncomfortable with how his compensation was turning out. He had expected to be making more, but the company’s performance wasn’t supporting it. Ted wasn’t complaining or making an issue of it or asking for anything. He was simply sharing his experience of his situation.
After Bill shared with me his conversation with Ted, I jumped on the opportunity to coach him on his empathy and asked, “Would you be open to exploring the role that empathy might play in this?” and like all coachable clients, he said, “Yes.” YAY!
I asked Bill, “What was your experience of that conversation?” (At this point in our relationship, Bill knows I’m asking what the conversation triggered within him regarding thinking, feeling and wanting. Check out the EQ Profile instrument for more on these triggers and how they show up for you.) Bill replied, “I felt sad and worried and responsible. And then I wanted to fix it. Maybe I should offer him more money.”
Bill’s response is common. It’s a work situation. A problem was presented. And problems are situations to be fixed, right? Not always. And not nearly as often as you might think. Sometimes just empathizing – and empathizing alone – provides what’s needed in these situations. Regardless, empathizing has the effect of moving the situation / conversation forward.
Sometimes people present a situation (like Ted did), not for it to be solved, but to feel less alone with it. To share it. To connect with someone else over it. Leaders need to know that not every situation presented to them (at work or at home) needs fixing. Sometimes it simply needs feeling. Feeling with the other person.
It’s easy to be empathetic with coworkers when say they have been passed over for a promotion, or they are sick, or they are feeling overwhelmed by their workload. We’ve all been in those situations; we can relate. We can feel with them. We can be empathetic.
But everything changes when the person who’s been passed over for promotion is your direct report – and you promoted her peer, or when the person who is sick leaves you with double the workload, or when the person overwhelmed by their workload is your direct report and there is no one else to do the work. What is to be empathized with hasn’t changed in this situation, but what has changed is your relationship to the person and situation.
When someone else’s challenge has triggered thoughts and feelings within us, we can be blinded to the experience of the other person by our own experience. Our own thoughts and feelings of ourselves can obstruct us from being empathetic with the other person.
Bill’s sadness, worry and feeling of responsibility for the situation with Ted were in conflict with his empathizing with him. Instead of acknowledging how challenging the situation must be for Ted, he focused on his own thoughts and feelings. He didn’t respond much, and he left Ted’s conversation with the sense that he needed to figure out a way to fix the situation.
I asked Bill, “Why do you think Ted told you what he did?” Bill: “I don’t know. I guess just to let me know. I’m not sure what else.” Me: “Just to let you know what?” Bill: “I guess to let me know …..his situation?” Me: “What’s the chance that Ted wanted you to know not only the situation, but also how he felt and thought about it?” Bill: “Yeah, I guess so.” Me: “And do you know how he feels and thinks about it, really?” Bill: “No, not really.”
Bill’s own experience triggered him to focus on his own responsibility for the situation, and to go into fix it mode. He missed the cues that Ted was giving him, no doubt, about how he was feeling and thinking about the situation.
Ignore for a moment all that touchy-feely stuff about connecting and all that science behind the effectiveness of empathy. And consider this: Empathy provides you with a source of information about the situation that nothing else does.
There is critical information for Bill in what Ted is feeling and thinking, and that Ted might not be saying. Ted may be feeling skeptical about the future of the company, and he’s signaling to Bill that things had better improve. Ted may be feeling disappointed and regretful that he didn’t negotiate his compensation better. Ted may be angry that he was duped by Bill. And each one of those feelings provides Bill with unique and different information. But Bill didn’t get the message. He didn’t empathize. His mind rushed to fix it.
So, how does one demonstrate empathy in the workplace? Funny you should ask. We created the following Practices for Demonstrating Empathy in the Workplace for you to share with your clients, whether they are super empathetic already and want to improve even more, or if they could use an empathy workout. These practices will be beneficial for leaders at all levels, with all degrees of empathy.
Bill thinks he’s empathetic. He doesn’t show up to coaching sessions asking for coaching on empathy. Lack of empathy didn’t show up in Bill’s 360. Awesome, right? Not if you talk to his direct reports.
Bill’s direct reports frequently describe in their coaching sessions with me how they go to Bill with concerns (too much work, not enough authority, not enough resources) or possibilities (a desire for more professional development, more staff, new title) and Bill responds with, “Do your job. Do it better. Figure it out. We don’t have more resources.” His direct reports leave the meeting – which was for them, a tough conversation with their boss – feeling deflated.
So this raises two questions – at least two. “Can you coach empathy?” And, if so, “Can you coach empathy in someone who isn’t asking for it?” In this blog post, and in the next one, I hope to answer these questions. The short answers are “Yes” and “Yes.”
Empathy is defined in different ways by different people. We at Learning in Action disaggregate empathy into its component parts, differentiate it from sympathy, and define it this way:
In short, empathy (accuracy + compassion) is what allows us humans to communicate, connect and relate with other humans. We humans have been neurobiologically designed to connect with each other through empathy.
Why should Bill care about whether he’s empathetic or not? Why is coaching Bill to be more empathetic implied in our coaching plan? Because empathy positively impacts outcomes.
The research on empathy and its impact on performance and outcomes are compelling:
The impact of empathy on performance is staggering. But why? How does someone like Bill make sense of that?
Simply put, a leader is only a leader if people follow. And people want to follow someone whom they feel understands them, cares about them, and connects with them.
To move an agenda, a plan, a business, forward, Bill can choose to transact with his employees or he can choose to relate to them. The leaders who get the best outcomes choose to relate – using empathy.
When a leader chooses to transact (engage with others without feeling, without caring), he/she may get the task done, but that’s all. And the next day, they are back where they started. Or if they ticked off the people they rely on to get things done, the next day, they start behind the eight ball with a tougher task ahead.
When a leader chooses to relate with others they work with, he/she does that through empathy, through shared thinking and feeling. They still get the task done, and yes, it might take slightly longer. But with that, they’ll have built a joint empathetic bank account with the people they work with, that can make everything that comes after, easier.
Empathy has the effect of greasing the skids, making future engagement with others more frictionless, enjoyable, comfortable. As the research proves, empathy can actually allow us to get more done faster!
As you can see, the business case for empathy (backed by research) is pretty dang convincing, no matter how you look at it. So, if being empathetic is so obviously correlated with strong performance and outcomes of all kinds, what keeps leaders from being empathetic?
Being empathetic can be challenging for some people, all of the time, and for all people, at least some of the time. Here are a few examples of what can block or inhibit empathetic engagement:
All of these situations can create inner conflicts that make feeling empathetic a choice between the other person and yourself.
If you have a client who wants to be a better leader, wants better relationships with peers, subordinates, their boss, or wants to perform better, consider sharing this article as a conversation starter. Ask them about their understanding of what empathy is and how it can be used in the workplace. Then ask them what could get in the way of their being as empathetic as they might like. Last, watch for part two of this blog for Exercises to Increase Empathy.
Whether our clients say it or not, how they feel about what they bring to us for coaching plays an essential role in the coaching itself.
That said, it isn’t always straightforward as to how to coach our clients around their feelings. Some clients discount the importance of their feelings, some clients don’t have ready access to their feelings, and others simply don’t have a language for what they feel.
By request, we created this primer for you to facilitate coaching your clients around emotions. Share the context below and the downloadable emotions guide with your clients to help them understand the role emotions play in their lives, the importance of accessing them, and a language to use to identify and talk about them.
Emotions provide us with access to information that no other dimension of our experience provides. If we ignore or deny our emotions, we lose vital information that is essential for understanding and making meaning of our lives. Additionally, each emotion comes with a gift that provides us with what we need to maintain a healthy life and quality relationships.
Naming our emotions while we are experiencing them allows us to shift from processing our experience through our ‘reptile brain’ to our ‘rational brain,’ providing us a greater degree of control. Neuroscientists like to say about emotions, “Name it to tame it!” Being conscious of, and naming, our emotions can move us from being at the mercy of our emotions, to being in control of ourselves and our impact on others.
The emotions we each experience are unique to us and are shaped by our DNA, as well as our past relationships and experiences. The same exact situation will provoke different emotions in different people. As a result, our emotions provide us with insight into how we are making meaning of a situation. When examined, our emotions can create awareness of what is our interpretation versus what is.
Helping your clients understand how their emotions provide a key to insights into what motivates them, triggers them and holds them back has the potential to shift every conversation you have into more meaningful territory.
While there are hundreds of shades of emotions, we at Learning in Action have identified seven categories of emotions (five distressing and two positive emotions) that provide distinctly unique information.
Within each category of emotion exists a range of emotional intensity, from high intensity to low, all in the same emotional family (e.g. Anger Family of Emotion: High Intensity = Outrage; Low Intensity = Annoyed). Each emotion is placed in the context of relationships: with co-workers, with neighbors, with family, with friends.
Use this tool to help identify and name emotions (particularly those experienced in relationship) and to understand the information and gift of each emotion. It handily complements our EQ Profile, and it equally stands on its own.
We hope you find this to be a helpful tool for you and your clients.
We’ve all read a lot about what to do when a client gets stuck and how to get them unstuck. (I’ve written/spoken on the topic myself.) But I haven’t read much, anything actually, on what to do when the coach gets stuck.
Just as when the client gets stuck, it’s about the client, so, too, when the coach gets stuck, it’s about the coach. I get that. And it doesn’t necessarily keep me from getting stuck sometimes.
Do you get stuck? If so, read on. I hope reading about some of the ways that I get stuck will help you to reflect on your own work.
If not, consider the possibility that believing you don’t get stuck is how you might be stuck.
What?! No way! Coaching is about the client, the client’s agenda, the coaching process. What’s there for the coach to get stuck on?
I’d be right there with you…. if we coaches weren’t human. But we are. As long as we are, we will impact the coaching in ways we are aware, and in ways we are not.
And that’s simply another way of saying that we all get stuck, knowingly or not, because we are all human. So, read on, if you will, and consider what comes up for you.
I worked with Ginny for three years. She wanted a business coach to help her think through some of the issues and opportunities presented by her business. (Just like most coaches who make a living coaching people who aren’t coaches, I employ a blend of both coaching and consulting.)
I would regularly provide Ginny with strategic models and frameworks as a means to inspire exploration of a clear strategy for her business. She wasn’t interested. I would mirror that and ask what was important. She’d agree that strategy was important, and then she’d take the conversation to something else. (Of course, I’d mirror that and so on.)
Ends up, she was more interested in talking about people issues, business development challenges and culture issues than about strategy. So that’s what we worked on. And I felt stuck.
I felt like I was failing Ginny. I believe fervently that the single most important aspect of any single business is that it embodies a clear compelling strategy. Why couldn’t I help her understand how important strategy is?
Then, upon reflection, I realized that I had to meet Ginny where she was and accept her and work with her from there. Strategy was my agenda and not hers. Ginny never really did increase her interest in strategy, but I stopped feeling like I was letting her down.
My not accepting Ginny where she was, was a proxy for my not accepting myself where I was. I’m still working on that one. It’s a work in progress.
Bill and I have worked together for about four years. Many of our coaching conversations have a circular feel to them. We’ll start out talking about something he wants for his business. By the end of most sessions, he’s talked himself out of every possibility we’ve explored.
And yes, I’ve mirrored that to him, and yes, he knows he’s pessimistic. He can tell me the 37 reasons why he is, and why he prefers to stay that way. (By the way, his natural pessimism serves him quite well in his risk management business).
Further, Bill spends an extraordinary amount of time in our sessions venting about what’s stressing him about his business. And he’s extremely stressed. I mirror that, explore his stress, what he can do to de-stress, and redirect back to what he wants to accomplish for the session.
At the end of most sessions, I’ll ask him what he’s taking away or what value he got from the session. Usually, he can’t name much. Ugh.
I have left most sessions with him feeling stuck. And again, feeling like a complete failure as a coach. (Detecting a theme yet? 😅)
I recently addressed all of this with Bill by saying, “I get the sense that you aren’t getting much value from our work together. I don’t want to be wasting your time and your money anymore.”
Bill said, “Alison, there’s really no one else I can talk to about this stuff. My wife is tired of it, and I can’t talk with my team about it. It’s too sensitive. I realize that it seems like I’m not making progress. But sometimes progress is slow. Hearing myself talk about this stuff and having the chance to vent helps keep me sane, and begin to move through it. I really need that!”
I realized that I had a judgment about the value a client “should” get from coaching: deepening their learning, forwarding their action. That’s what a client “should” get, right? If that’s not happening, we assume the client isn’t getting value. Or, even more ominously, what we are doing isn’t coaching.
I now know that the value every client gets from the work we do is different. And it’s not for me to judge.
Sure, some people may say what I’m doing isn’t coaching. That’s ok with me. As long as I’m helping, easing the pain, relieving the very real sense of loneliness and hopelessness that sometimes accompanies entrepreneurship (and for that matter, humanship), that’s enough for me.
Occasionally, I coach my client’s direct reports. If you’ve done it, you know it comes with its own unique set of challenges.
I worked with Debbie about six months. Most every coaching session centered on her relationship with her boss, Jim, who is also my client.
Debbie was in a constant state of overwhelm, working long hours, juggling a multitude of projects, saying yes to everything Jim asked of her. She felt overworked, unappreciated and intermittently micromanaged.
Over those six months, our coaching sessions focused on the choices Debbie was making, how her choices were serving her, her fear of addressing the issue with Jim, what was under that fear, and, of course, what she wanted and what she was going to do.
During the six months, buoyed by our work, she’d had small conversations on tactical topics with Jim that she’d never had before. But she kept postponing the larger conversation about boundaries, role definition, scope and authority.
She was still too afraid and too certain that it wouldn’t go well. So it stayed front and center in our work.
Then, during a coaching session with Jim, he started talking about how Debbie wasn’t getting things done on time, how she didn’t know how to prioritize, and how she was such a disappointment. I could feel myself getting angry. I was feeling protective of Debbie. And I felt stuck. But not for long.
Within hours, I determined that I was not going to continue to put myself in that position. I wasn’t serving either client well. I had to be honest with myself about what I could bracket* and what I couldn’t. My belief in and support of my clients, all of them, is not something I can easily turn on and off.
For better or worse, right or wrong, in my next coaching session with Debbie, I said, “We’ve been working for months now on what you want from your job and from Jim, and you haven’t had that conversation yet. That unspoken conversation is affecting my relationship with Jim, and I don’t want to be in that position any more. I’ve enjoyed working with you and want to continue. And I don’t feel I can if you don’t have that conversation with Jim.” She said she understood. We talked about next steps and how I could support her.
I’m still not sure I did the right thing. Some would say the right thing is not to have put myself in that situation. Maybe so. My clients and I have had different, equally challenging experiences when a different coach works with their direct reports. The right thing to do in situations like this isn’t always clear, at least not to me.
Yes, coaching comes with a rule book (if you subscribe to ICF principles), but when nearly every coach I know and trust doesn’t follow the book, what are the rules? Maybe if I followed all the rules in the book, I wouldn’t be stuck. But, I don’t believe everything in the book, so how can I follow it scrupulously?
I don’t know that I’ve handled these situations rightly or well. I simply know I was stuck and needed to get unstuck. Because as long as I’m stuck, I’m not helping my client.
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* Bracketing refers to the coach’s ability to detach from their thinking, feeling, wanting about anything not germane to coaching the client in front of them.
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